“The first school for your baby is not preschool
but as early as before born and it is called womb school.
This fresh and current concept creates an unprecedented
opportunity for moms to explore the possibility to reform
a baby with different brain functions and updated IQ.
A dream that has been dreamed by human being for millions
of years is coming to us.”
Chapter 13 - EARLY STIMULATION
IN BABIES AND TODDLERS
Babies are born with an innate need to learn. In fact, an
infant’s brain is only about 25% developed at birth. Over the
first year of life, your child’s brain will be more than double
in size. By age three, your child’s brain will be about 80%
of the size of an adult’s and twice as active. It is important
to stimulate your child’s brain in order to create the brain-cell
connections, called neural synapses, which establish the pathways
for learning.
At birth, your baby's brain contains 100
billion of neurons. Early brain development is the foundation
of human adaptability and resilience, but these qualities come
at a price. Because experiences have such a great potential
to affect brain development, children are especially vulnerable
to persistent negative influences during this period. On the
other hand, these early years are a window of opportunity for
parents, caregivers, and communities: positive early experiences
have a huge effect on children’s chances for achievement, success,
and happiness.
13.1 Baby stimulation and development
From the moment we meet our little bundle we become responsible
for their development, and stimulating your baby from an early
age is an integral part of her development. Not only does appropriate
stimulation aid in the development of the five senses and brain,
but it also plays a vital role in the development of a healthy
relationship between caregiver and baby. In fact those early
interactions between mom, or dad and baby are the very beginnings
of a secure attachment connection between them and, as you will
see, a key aspect in the development of healthy selfesteem and
confidence. Early stimulation can often be a daunting topic
for most parents, especially when your little baby is so tiny
he is hardly awake.
Parents fret about buying the right educational toys, the
correct books and playing the latest “Mozart for Babies” classics.
However, while all these are useful interactional tools, there
is nothing quite like face-to-face interaction and play time.
It’s a known fact that the new born can see objects best when
placed around 20” away from him – No coincidence then that this
is the distance from his face to mom’s face when he lays breastfeeding
- a time when he can lovingly gaze into mom’s eyes. And that
is where most of the learning in these early days takes place.
Talking and “coo-ing” to your baby is an essential part in baby
stimulation and far surpasses any type of educational toy, or
visually stimulating book you could place in front of him. This
is where your baby learns the art of communication and socialization,
which is imperative in the further development of self-confidence,
self-esteem and intelligence.
13.2 Infant Massages
Interestingly, the Native Americans and East Indians have
made use of infant massage for many years making use of the
benefits on a daily basis. Touch and caress has been used for
centuries to communicate care and love, so it is no small wonder
that this simple tool is so effective in supporting that special
bond between you and your baby, as well as facilitating healthy
growth and development. We all enjoy a trip to the spa for a
massage – your baby will enjoy a gentle massage too. In fact,
research shows that massage promotes growth in young babies
where premature babies who were massaged three times a day were
able to leave the hospital far sooner than the babies who were
not.
Not only does massage promote healthy growth, but it also
stimulates your little one’s tactile senses as well as encouraging
bonding, improving sleep and letting your little one relax.
Massage also encourages communication and attachment. Babies
who are massaged regularly show better immunity and also increased
weight gain as opposed to babies who are not massaged. The massage
leads to myelination of the nerves, which leads to brain and
muscle development so it is not small wonder that massage is
so beneficial to growth and development.
Furthermore,
if your baby has colic or suffers with stomach problems, an
abdominal massage assists in moving the gas out of the digestive
system and relieving tummy aches and cramps. Many babies who
have trouble feeding also benefit from facial massage as this
has been shown to promote the strength of the baby’s ability
to suck. In general, infant massage assists healthy growth and
development of muscles, brain, communication, immunity, good
blood circulation and even stimulating the nervous system.
A mix of Swedish strokes, yoga and Indian massage is used
in infant massage. It is best to consult a massage therapist
who can show you just how to massage your baby in the right
way. You can then show your baby’s grandparents how to do it
so that they can also be included in bonding with your little
one.
13.3 Choose appropriate toys
While face-to-face interaction, being attentive and focused
and having meaningful conversations with your baby are imperative
in healthy development and growth, the use of appropriate toys
also goes a long way in terms of assisting your baby’s physical
and mental development. There are a myriad of educational and
developmental toys available for your baby so, instead of spending
huge sums of money on buying everything you can afford, try
to pick appropriate toys that will be beneficial to your little
one’s development.
In this sense the use of highly contrasted toys with black
and white patterns especially useful for newborns as their sight
is just developing at this stage and high contrast patterns
are easier to see and more interesting to look at. As your baby
gets older you will find that he enjoys brightly colored objects
that make a sound when you shake or rattle them. He will love
to swat at toys hanging overhead and may eventually try to grasp
them. A play gym or mat with toys that hang overhead is relevant
and appropriate for this stage. Hang toys that have a bell and
can jingle when he swats them as he will love to hear the noise
he can make. Once he is able to sit comfortably without assistance
you may introduce toys such as shape sorters to help develop
his ability to categorize and sort items, or stacking cups where
he can learn to fit one size into another. You may find that
he really enjoys putting lids onto containers and pots and encouraging
this is beneficial for him.
As he learns about cause
and effect, a wind up jack-in-the-box toy could be fun teaching
him the element of surprise. He will also enjoy toys that make
a noise or move when you push a button. As your baby learns
to crawl and then walk you will find that toys that move, or
roll away from him could be an enticing toy to follow and facilitate
the development of mobility. Later on you may consider toys
that he can push or pull to assist the development of gross
motor control.
It is really important to ensure that
you use developmentally appropriate toys with your child. When
your child is able to master a task and succeed he will develop
self confidence in his abilities whereas he may get frustrated
and distressed if he is unable to master a task that is beyond
him. As a result, presenting your child with opportunities to
succeed is imperative or healthy emotional development.
Toys are known throughout the world as birthday gifts for
babies, but has the real benefit of these gadgets been explored?
Whether it’s a mechanical robot, stuffed animal or any other
toy category, toys have also been linked stimulating baby’s
mind. When a child picks up the stuffed toy and subsequently
starts tearing it apart, his or her little mind is working in
steps to understand the role played by the animal, why it tears
apart and so on. Indeed, babies learn a lot in such times from
toys.
Toys that make sounds when pressed, such that
piano keyboard designed toys also have a substantial impact
on a baby’s mind. A baby can follow along with time start making
music of his own.
13.4 Games
Games have been designated as some of the ways a baby’s
brain can be stimulated. According to a recent study on the
effectiveness of games during brain training, it was found that
babies can start training their minds through concentration.
Simple computer games have highly been linked to this outcome
although there are other infant brain stimulation games that
can also be used to achieve the same results.
An experiment
was conducted by University of London, Birbeck, which focused
on 42 babies. During the research project, the babies were divided
into two groups. Further into the study, the babies were introduced
to computer games and cartoons on televisions. The objective
of the experiment was to identify how these babies focus on
moving targets and the impact it had on their brains. According
to the researchers in the project, an improved focus presents
children with an opportunity to identify themselves with new
skills.
The results from the study showed that those
children who were exposed to computer games had higher brain
stimulation than those watching cartoons on the television.
This was ascertained by giving all children included in the
study to perform various tasks such as playing with their toys,
and those who had undergone comprehensive brain training were
able to focus on their toys more even with environmental distractions.
Since the front parts of the brain are normally associated
with concentration, it is evident that infants can get easily
distracted due to their poorly developed brain. But if early
stimulation is initiated, growth can be enhanced with time.
Researchers in this study were also able to confirm that games
could be used to enhance brain capacity of premature births
or those with learning and attention difficulties. Apart from
computer games, there are other activities suited for toddlers
and babies for early stimulation. Some of these games include
rocking and bouncing with the baby, dancing with the baby, making
sounds for the baby, showing facial expressions, especially
to infants.
As the baby grows, games become even more
applicable. Curricular activities are recommended in schools
because they not only help to identify and build talent, but
also stimulate the brain through physical exercise. For babies
aged between 4 and 6 years, more advanced games can be introduced
to them.
13.5 Have meaningful conversations.
As emphasized throughout the last chapter, face to face
interaction with your baby is of utmost importance to his healthy
physical, emotional and mental development. Making sure that
you have quality time where you are just ‘chatting; with your
baby not only builds a strong emotional connection between you,
but helps your little one make sense of language patterns and
speech so that he can communicate clearly later on. The areas
of the brain that are responsible for understanding and producing
language are dependent on your input for healthy development.
As such, early communication where parents tend to talk in a
high pitch and exaggerate each syllable are an important part
of communicating with your baby. This talk is referred to as
“parentese” and is a natural and common way of talking to young
children.
Your little one will acquire rich language skills, as well
as planning and reasoning skills when you communicate meaningfully
with him. This communication gives his brain the opportunity
to wire together important neural connections and pathways essential
in understanding and producing language and verbal reasoning.
Parents often find it difficult to talk to their baby, especially
in the early days, but it is as simple as chatting about the
weather. When you are with your baby you could tell him all
about what you are doing at the moment and where you are walking
and what you can see. Tell him about your day and what you have
planned for his day. Communicating with him frequently also
makes him feel loved and cared for, which is essential in promoting
healthy self-esteem.
13.6 Reading
Study shows that early child stimulation, which enhances
brain development has a significant impact towards intelligence
building. The experiment was made up of children who were tracked
from the time they turned four years. The reason behind this
study was to find out how cortex development impacted a child’s
future and methods that could be used to enhance this procedure.
Reading stands out as one of the most celebrated ways towards
brain development. During infancy, there are several ways besides
reading for the baby that mothers can enhance the health of
their babies’ brains. For instance, talking to the baby is a
procedure listed among brain boosting options as well as playing
games and keeping a close proximity with the baby at all times.
But when stories are read to the baby with the pictures
right in front of the baby, the baby strives to connect the
voice from the mother to the pictures on the book. And as it
grows, sooner or later the baby will follow every sentence and
subsequently connect with the images as the parent reads on.
Although the observational factor here is based on children
between 0 and 5 years, it is also believed that reading during
pregnancy enhances the baby’s intelligence. In the 26th week
of pregnancy, the baby’s neural system is already developed.
It is able to respond to the sound and voice, which is the reason
that music has to some point been attributed to intelligent
babies as well especially before birth.
The science behind brain development advocates that the
first three years of human life are very crucial towards brain
development. In fact, by the time a child turns three years,
his or her brain is almost as functioning as that of an adult.
Reading to children before they go to bed is a practice, which
has continued to work for years. But its traditional objective
was to soothe babies and children to fall asleep. According
to new scientific evidence, reading has its own hidden benefits
towards child stimulation and growth. The brain is designed
to respond to any form of stimuli and the process is referred
to as neuroplasticity.
Activity levels have a tendency
of dropping during adolescence, but the first five years can
have substantial results on intelligence as the baby grows to
an adult. Although the brain is already developed before birth,
there is a lot of work supposed to be done after birth. Early
stages of the baby’s life are good timing for enhancement, because
it is quite unfinished, and thus reading for the baby is one
way to ensure this. Notably, as the baby grows, the caregiver
is encouraged to teach the baby how to read before it goes to
kindergarten.
13.7 Arrange supervised play with messy materials.
Texture, texture, texture – it is so important in your little
one’s development. Imagine what it must be like to handle cooked
spaghetti in tomato sauce for the first time. Imagine running
rice grains through your fingers for the first time, or squishing
corn flour, mud and jelly in your hands. Messy play is a sensory
adventure for babies and it will teach your toddler all about
the properties of liquids, solids and different mixtures. These
sensory experiences are the grist for the developing brain so
ensure that you make time to play with as many messy and textured
ingredients as you can.
A sand pit is a great investment for a little child where
he can mix water with sand and see it turn from ordinary sand
to wet sand. Where he can cook up mud pies and serve up sand
cakes. A water tray to pour and catch up water is a learning
experience that offers great sensory experience. Allowing your
little one to mush food on his high chair tray and create wonderful
patterns with the textures will allow him a valuable sensory
experience. Mix up some corn flour and show him how the consistency
changes as he plays with it and leaves it to rest and ensure
that you do all this just before bath time. Then you can continue
your texture adventure by using bath time as a time to experience
water, slippery soap, soft towels and terry washcloths. A sensory
adventure that gives your baby’s brain a superb learning opportunity.
13.8 Music
There is nothing more that titillates the ear and improves
one’s brain thinking capacity than music. In most design and
animation firms or other industries where creativity is a necessity,
it doesn’t come as a surprise that special music plays in the
background as professional work. The same concept is applicable
in babies’ early stimulation.
In the past, parents sang
to their babies to soothe them to sleep. This technique was
also applicable if the baby was crying and needed to be stopped.
By combining other strategies such as bouncing and rocking the
baby, parents achieved this goal with ease.
Today, the
role of music is more than just a tool to soothe the baby. Researchers
have come to believe that music as a stimulating effect to the
brain can create new pathways. The brain develops depending
on various approaches. While there are contradicting accounts
on the role of music, whether it does make people smarter or
not, when it comes to adults, it has become evident that music
doesn’t boost their smartness. But if the idea is introduced
from infancy, especially during the first few years of childhood,
there can be lucrative benefits.
Classical music has been reviewed as the best category of
music with these special effects. Researchers have affirmed
that complex music is able to trigger those paths in the brain
that grow to increase the baby’s overall intelligence. Although
classical music is believed to provide most support on this
process, when it comes to babies, there are those special babies’
songs that should be used as well.
The role of the parent
or caregiver when using music for stimulation purposes depends
on the level of understanding they have on that particular music.
The step by step process includes playing music for the baby,
singing to the baby, singing with the baby even if it cannot
mouth the words, and enrolling the baby to music lessons, especially
those between the ages of 4 and 5.
Overall, when
music is exposed to infants as they grow, it boosts their listening
and language skills. More scientific evidence has also shown
that literacy, coordination and creativity are also improved.
All those factors are helpful as the baby develops with more
evidence showing that such children are also likely to perform
exemplary in math. Since listening to music doesn’t cost anything,
not even the caregiver’s time, as one can work as it plays,
it has been shortlisted as the most favorable and cost effective
method to promote intelligence in babies.
13.9 Foster an Early Passion for Books
Reading is the foundation to language and a good vocabulary
so it follows that encouraging a love of reading early on is
enormously beneficial to your child. Fostering a passion for
books is an easy thing to do with little children, especially
if you make the activity fun and special. Choosing books with
large and colorful pictures to read together in the beginning
will give you a special bonding time where you can share in
your baby’s delight in pointing and making sounds. You can show
him the sounds that different animals make and teach him the
names of colors and shapes.
Later, reading simple stories
together is a lovely way to bond just before bed time where
you can enjoy the story together. This is especially true once
your little one becomes mobile and is out exploring most of
the day then reading time becomes a special time to bond together.
Many parents also make use of simple stories to help children
adjust to specific routines such as bath time, bed time, going
to school and going on holiday. These books help your baby to
understand the sequence of events so they can make sense of
what is happening.
When you read fairy tales together,
you can modulate the tone of your voice and elaborate on the
story line encouraging your toddler to talk about what is happening
and encouraging language development. When parents show an interest
in an activity, children often follow suit so ensuring that
you are enthusiastic about reading and communicating that this
is a special activity together will help your baby feel positively
about reading.
Allow him to come to the book store with
you and choose books that interest him and remember that building
your baby's ability to understand language is more important
than developing his ability to speak during infancy. In this
sense do not be too concerned about getting him to talk about
the pictures when he is still very young, but rather use the
opportunity for you to talk about the pictures and develop his
receptive language. Later, when he has reached toddler stage
you can encourage him to talk about what he sees.
Not only does reading provide some valuable bonding time,
but it also increases your child’s ability to grasp abstract
concepts, apply logic in a variety of different scenarios, understand
cause and effect, and develop sound judgment. Furthermore, learning
to sit still during story time is a valuable skill that forms
the foundation for later ability to concentrate and sustain
attention.
13.10 Play games that involve the hands and sequences
Another fun and stimulating game to play with your older
baby or toddler is pattycake clapping game. Young children love
to clap and toddlers respond well to repetitive, sequential
games such as patty-cake, peek-a-boo and this little piggy.
Not only does it give you valuable face-to-face time, but it
also teaches your little one hand-eye coordination, fine and
gross motor skills, as well as cause and effect and anticipation.
Peek-a-boo is an important game to establish object permanence.
You will notice at around 8 – 10 months of age that your baby
becomes quite distressed when you leave him.
It is around
this age that he begins to realize that he is separate from
his mother and that she can leave him. Separation anxiety normally
sets in around this time and it is an important developmental
milestone. You can help your baby overcome this anxiety by teaching
him that objects that disappear don’t cease to exist and the
same goes for mom – when she leaves the room she will still
come back. Playing peek-a-boo with toys and with yourselves
(by hiding behind a blanket and then reappearing) helps your
baby understand that objects still exist even if he can’t see
them. It
It is a really good idea to have at least one or two periods
of learning play with your little one per day. These sessions
don’t have to be particularly lengthy – just around ten to fifteen
minutes would be perfect. Remember that you don’t want to overstimulate
your baby, so keep an eye on him and make sure you stop when
he shows signs of getting tired or fussy. These play sessions
are best when they include a mix of stories, songs, dancing
and some visual stimulation. Later on, when your little one
is alert for longer periods and can handle a bit more play you
could try add games that stimulate the other senses such as
tactile and olfactory stimulation games. In this sense, playing
a little game of “round and round the garden” while you run
your finger around his palm and then slowly up his arm until
you tickle him “under there” will stimulate his tactile senses.
Olfactory stimulation could include a walk around the garden
and smelling the different flowers, or you could let him smell
the spices as you cook dinner
13.11 Sports
Sporting activities in toddlers and babies have been linked
with a head-start in career opportunities. This is not the only
reason that sporting activities are encouraged to babies. Toddlers
can be introduced to sport events as early as 3 years old. The
main idea behind this objective is that sports help to nurture
the baby physically as he or she grows. The most interesting
thing about sports is that the results are triggered by passion.
The child, though with a coach behind, will adapt to
unique ways in which he will attempt to breakthrough and gain
recognition. Even those parents and caregivers who think they
can control talent and introduce their children in various sporting
activities, if the child has no passion in the sport, he or
she will fail.
Generally, play is important for kids because it helps them
discover their hidden talents, but for those who have done their
homework very well, play in kids’ brain development also plays
a huge role. Scientific research has confirmed that sporting
activities promote healthy development to kids.
When
a child is bored, he is incapable of thinking creatively; sports
stimulate creativity and subsequently enhance a child’s advocacy
skills. More evidence just like the old saying, work without
play makes Tom a dull boy, has shown that children are able
to learn the benefits of team work, the impact of sharing, and
most importantly, how to negotiate.
Children are able
to understand the concept of rules, why they are followed among
other things, which would all culminate to good virtues. A sporting
program should encompass several outtakes, but the most important
of all is fun. Sporting activities for kids are always filled
with fun.
13.12 Select Old Classic Movies for Children (as Dumbo,
Pinocchio, Lion King, etc)
We all remember the classics – Dumbo, Pinocchio, and Lion
King (to name a few). These are movies that tugged at the heart
strings and always had some deeper moral or value to impart.
Let’s take Dumbo as an example. Here is a little elephant with
ears so big that he gets mocked and teased about them. At the
end of the movie, those ears help him fly above all those who
would have bullied him before. This story teaches us that sometimes
our flaws can be our biggest assets and that true friends accept
us just the way we are. It also shows us that, while magic helps
us along, we should believe in ourselves at the end of the day.
Pinocchio, another firm favorite, teaches children that
we should trust our elders, stay away from bad company and always
be kind and caring to others. Of course, its biggest lesson
is not to lie, as one small white lie can turn into a huge problem.
Classic movies such as Dumbo, Pinocchio and Lion King all promote
self-esteem and confidence. Watching movies where the hero struggles
with a particular moral dilemma only to come out on top with
increased self-worth and confidence is another form of modeling
for our children. Again, spending time with you while you watch
the movie together, or read the book, is another benefit to
your child. Bear in mind, however, that television is not beneficial
to children under the age of two.
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13.13 Stimulation programs for children
Scientists have continuously endeavored to find answers
about child development and disabilities. Although disabilities
are usually associated with both mental and physical impairment,
and programs for children with such special cases are designed,
stimulation programs for children these days exceed developmental
disabilities.
State governments plan and empower people
to enroll their young children in any of the sets of private
and public infant stimulation programs. But unlike in the past
where intelligence from babies and toddlers with special needs
were most likely to be enrolled and improved, a new study shows
that even intelligence from children aged between 0 to 5 years
old with no similar conditions can also be improved. Stimulation
programs are meant to boost intelligence in so many ways. Brain
neurons can trigger connections between children and the environments
they are exposed.
Generally, the more environments the children are exposed
to, the higher chances that they will be able to interact with
those in the vicinity while at the same time understand what
goes on around them. Parents who adapt early intervention for
their children are likely to impact knowledge and enhance brain
functioning, which is a remarkable capacity for these children.
Incidentally, improved brain performance also promotes admirable
development of the entire body while at the same time acts as
a prevention strategy against handicapped children. Stimulation
programs for children can also be targeted to the parent instead
of the child.
When parents and children are subjected
into these programs, especially those that combine them within
the same facility, they are able to interact and understand
each other accordingly. When a child’s cognitive development
is evaluated at length, it would be evident that the role played
by these are beyond any medication or brain training method
for kids. The digital world is exposing children to advanced
programs where gadgets are availed to them. These gadgets are
fitted with simple games, animations and other visuals that
would maximize the brain and subsequently hard wire it.
13.14 Others Methods to Stimulate
There are so many things that caregivers, parents and other
child specialists adapt in order to promote early stimulation.
A window of opportunity for a child is always open from the
time of conception to birth all the way as it grows to an adult.
It is the role of the mother, or the caregiver to explore
all those opportunities and later extend them to the child.
But what should be done? We have explored music, games, special
programs and sports.
One thing we failed to recognize
is sensory motor experiences, which terms are those predefined
elements all together. The abilities to touch, strike, kick
and catch are all stimulated to the child.
A comprehensive program that will identify a baby or a toddler
as well nurtured being should encompass all locomotive principles
that will play a key role towards stimulating and hard wiring
those fundamental patterns that will lead to an improved skills
set. Combining music and other motion based activities is revered
as a good way to help babies achieve good results. When infants
interact with their caregivers on daily basis through predefined
physical activities, they are able to explore the environment
in depth.
Infants are playful in nature, which means
that they should not be placed in areas or facilities that restrict
their movements for a prolonged period of time. Researchers
have come to realize that those infants with no access to features
that facilitate development take longer to achieve complete
mobility. Knowledge is a necessity to any caregiver or parent
as they are supposed to have some basic ideas on the benefits
of early stimulation.
Baby's language is a special language
that babies use to communicate to each other. Bringing together
several babies in one sitting allows them to exchange views
and subsequently connect. Talking to the baby can be used to
help stimulate baby’s minds to start adapting to the current
environment. Parents are encouraged to start communicating to
their babies even before birth and continue with the trend as
early as 0 to 5 years.
Children have a tendency of adapting
the mode of communication around them. For this reason, what
the caregiver says, the child’s mind records. Research has also
confirmed that children are able to respond to their names from
infancy, and thus the same norm is also encouraged.
13.15 Kids Who Get Spanked May Have Lower IQs
There is an ongoing debate about whether spanking really
does work. The answer is not as simple as it seems. While spanking
is certainly effective in the short term; enabling you to modify
an unwanted behavior with a small smack on the hand or bum,
one has to wonder about the long term effects. So really the
question is not whether spanking is effective, but rather whether
spanking can lead to permanent damage in children years later.
Corporal punishment has been studied since the late
sixties and it was found by Murray Straus in particular that
children who have been physically punished scored significantly
lower on IQ tests than children who had not. In fact, the research
showed that IQ was linked to the amount of punishment received
such that children who had been spanked more had even lower
IQ’s. This study was conducted internationally across 32 countries
illustrating that this was a phenomenon common to many nations
– that average IQs in nations where spanking was common was
significantly lower than in nations where spanking was uncommon.
As such, Murray concluded that corporal punishment and spanking
does leave a lasting mark on children years later.
More
specifically, a study conducted by Straus looking at a total
of 1510 children also concluded that children who had been spanked
scored lower in IQ tests than children who had not. Children
who had been spanked during the initial survey had scored significantly
lower in IQ tests in a follow up survey conducted 4 years later
than the children who had not been spanked during the initial
survey. The study also suggested that the younger the children
were the more significant the difference in IQ was later on.
But how does spanking really affect IQ? The studies conducted
by Straus suggested that children who were spanked experienced
stress and fear and, consequently, found it more difficult to
relax and learn. In fact, Straus went as far as to suggest that
children who experienced physical punishment were also far less
likely to graduate from college, even after you took parental
education and occupation into account.
One might ask
whether physical punishment really leads to lower IQ, or whether
it is lower IQ that leads to more spanking. This is an interesting
question, indeed. After all it is possible that misbehavior
is more common in children with poor problem solving, impulse
control and reasoning skills and misbehavior leads to a need
for discipline. Straus, however, suggested that the link between
IQ and punishment was actually bi-directional. By this he meant
that while there was certainly cause for the physical punishment
to take place, the physical punishment itself contributed negatively
towards the child’s development in the long term.
The
consideration of all this evidence should lead us to move away
from corporal punishment as a whole. However, data suggests
that this is not the case where the majority of parents in the
US are still using physical punishment. In a study looking at
around 17000 students internationally, Straus found that there
was less use of corporal punishment in countries having a higher
GPD. He also found that the tendency towards physical punishment
was related to income and culture, as well as parents who had
been spanked themselves as children. While the research suggests
that the majority of parents are still spanking their children,
studies also show that the overall percentage of parents who
use physical punishment has been declining. Despite the decline,
there are still many who defend the practice of spanking and
will say that it is a necessary practice and possibly the only
way to modify the behavior of a difficult toddler. This may
very well be the case, but it is important to consider the long
term damage that is possibly caused by this short term fix.
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Summary
● It
is important to stimulate your child’s brain
in order to create the brain-cell connections, called
neural synapses, which establish the pathways for learning.
● Early brain development is the foundation
of human adaptability and resilience, but these qualities
come at a price. Because experiences have such
a great potential to affect brain development, children
are especially vulnerable to persistent negative influences
during this period.
● The role of music
is more than just a tool to soothe the baby.
Researchers have come to believe that music
as a stimulating effect to the brain can create new
pathways.
● Sporting activities in toddlers
and babies have been linked with a head-start in career
opportunities. This is not the only reason
that sporting activities are encouraged to babies.
● There are so many things that caregivers,
parents and other child specialists adapt in order to
promote early stimulation. A window of opportunity
for a child is always open from the time of conception
to birth all the way as it grows to an adult.
● Baby's language is a special language
that babies use to communicate to each other.
Bringing together several babies in one sitting allows
them to exchange views and subsequently connect.
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